How To Get Women Into Bed

Women want sex as much as men do, and perhaps they enjoy sex even more than men, and the female orgasm is in many cases stronger and more intense than the male orgasm.

However, men still find It difficult to get women into bed with them, especially on the early parts of the interaction.

There are many reasons for why women resist getting into bed with you. However, the good news are that in many cases, a woman’s resistance to sex can be overcome.

But why do women resist having sex with you too early, how can this be explained if women want sex too, and how can you get women into bed anyway?

What Causes Her To Resist?

There are pretty many reasons and factor that cause women to resist having sex with men too soon. This will happen even if she is attracted to you and even if she’s totally horny. You need to understand and address her fears and concerns before she’s going to freely go to bed with you.

But before we deal with her fears, there is one thing you shouldn’t do: “Convince Her”. Women want sex and want intimacy, so explaining why sex is good for her will rarely help.

Being A Slut

A great fear women have, is being seen as “sluts”. Men who have sex with many women are considered as “studs”, but it’s the total opposite for women.

A girl will always be afraid that somehow her friends are gonna figure out that she had sex on the first date or with a guy she’s just met.

It’s a big fear women have, and you’ll need to address it.

Being Used For Sex

Another fear women have, is of being used by men for sex. It happens to many women – they agree to have sex with some guy, and then he just throws them away from his place.

This “Walk Of Shame” during late night hours, is definitely something she doesn’t want to have.

If she agree to casual  sex with a guy, she wants to enjoy it too.

Sex Too Early Makes Her Unattractive

Women believe that the longer they wait before having sex with a guy, the more attracted he will be to her.

In fact, this belief might have some truth in it. If a guy spends long time with a girl, he feels invested in her, and in addition, she has more time to show what a great girl she is.

Anyway, especially if a woman is attracted to you and sees you as a potential boyfriend (or even more), she might try to postpone sex as much as possible.

By the way, married men face less resistance from women, because the girl knows that the whole relationship isn’t too serious..

It’s Your Role To Seduce Her

Well, I gave you several resistances a woman will have before having sex with you. But how can you convince her, without really convincing. How can you overcome all those fears she has?

Well, you can go the long way – just stay with her for a long time. Go out to many dates, give it a few weeks or perhaps even months, until she feels really “ready”.

However, this can be much shorter. No matter if you really want just casual sex, or if you are looking for a girlfriend, there is no reason you have to wait so much before having sex.

Also, you should understand that although a woman creates this resistance to sex, she basically expects you to try. It’s her social role to say “No”, and it’s your role to try and seduce her.

The Best Way To Get Her Into Bed

In order to get her to bed early in the relationship, you will need to overcome and address her fears. There can be many ways to do this, but here I will tell you about the method that I use. In fact, I learned from a pick up artist named Jerry in LA.

What I do to reduce her fears, is to show her, as if I am the one who is afraid. I do this either by telling her that I’m “afraid”, or by accusing her.

Here are examples:

Women are afraid of being seen as a slut. The fear is basically that you are gonna tell your friends and even other people about getting her into bed.

 Therefore, what I do to overcome this fear, is telling her something like “I hope you are not one of those ‘kiss-and-tell girls’”. She than asks me what I mean, and I say “I hate those girls that tell their friends about everything that happens to them with guys.

What happens here is that you are telling her, indirectly, that she shouldn’t worry about being seen as a slut.

The same can be done about her fear of being dumped a second after you have sex. Tell her: “I hope that you are not one of those girls who leave a second after having first sex”. Again, you reflect her fear as if you are the one who has it.

So, Dealing with her fears, is done by reflecting them, as if you are the one who has these fears.