Getting a Girlfriend – Practical Guide

Alt­hough it’s typical to believe that most men don’t look for a “serious relationship” like women do, this is in many cases totally not true.

Many men want a girlfriend – they want a relationship with that one girl who they will live and who will love them.

And yet, in our times it’s definitely not easy for men to find their love.

In this post I’ll provide you with the most essential steps that you should consider making in order to begin your journey to find a girlfriend.

How Many Women Do You Meet?

Let’s deal with you first problem, which is meeting women. There are plenty of great women out there.

But as a girlfriend, you need a woman that is both physically attractive for you, AND you also need to have good chemistry and connection together. She also needs to like you as well, of course.

Eventually, no matter how successful or attractive you are – if you meet and date enough women, you will find the one for you.

So start going out to bars and clubs, go to various social gatherings, attend various events, etc. You should also learn skills like “cold approaching” – which is the hardest skills of pickup – approaching random and totally unknown to you women (yes, it’s possible and works).

A great “rule” I gave myself that really boosted the number of women I meet, was the “one approach per day” rule.

The idea is that you approach at least one girl every day. Imagine how many women you can meet this way in a week… in a month… in a year!

The first step to getting a girlfriend definitely goes through meeting more women.

Concentrate on Dating

I’m sure that you hear about men who get laid on the same night, who pick up drunk chicks in night clubs and never remember them a day later.

When we’re talking about finding a girlfriend, your goal to start dating more women. Like the previous point, the more women you date, the more potential girlfriends you’ll meet.

Yes, I know it might sound obvious to you (“Yes, of course I need to date more women, what’s the news here?”), but the point here is that you should start asking women out on dates.

A common mistake of many men is to talk with a girl, get her attracted, but they are afraid to make the next move and to ask her out.

Indeed, many women will refuse. But don’t concentrate on that. What’s important is that many women will be glad to date you.

So from now on, when you meet a nice girl that you like – don’t finish your interaction without suggest that you go out and have a drink (or coffee).

Understanding Women

Almost all men in the world tend to be stubborn with not understanding women. Now, I know that this might sound as “beta” or “being a nice guy”, but women really need from men is to be understood.

Women are greatly influenced by their emotions and feelings, but no matter how they try, men don’t really get that.

The big reason why you keep seeing women as “weird” or unpredictable is because you keep thinking as a man.

Accept it – women are different. Not being logical is part of a woman’s personality. You actually don’t really need to understand what exactly causes her actions, just accept it.

Getting a girlfriend means that you need to establish a deep and strong connection with a girl. You really need to understand how she feels and thinks.

So in general, start understanding women, start listening to how they view the world. The more you listen and learn, the easier it will be for you to understand and connect with the women that you want.