How To Get Laid On The First Date

Most women consider having sex after the fisrst date with a guy as “cheap” and “slutty”.

Women are always aware of what other people and society think of them. And being too sexual is often see as inappropriate. Also, women believe that going to bed with a guy she’s just met, is going to ruin her chances with him, and that he’ll probably lose interest in her.

So, if you ask a girl after the first date, “do you want to have sex with me?” – even if she is totally horny and interested – her answer will be pretty predictable – “No”.

But does it mean that you can’t get laid on the first date? Well, don’t lose your hope yet

Women Want Sex Too

There is a famous saying that goes like: “Men want sex, women want romance”. Well, this is total boolshit. There were lots of reasearches in the last decades, that showed that women enjoy sex even more than men. The female orgasm is way more intense than the male one?

So why do women resist to have sex too soon? Well, there are 2 main reasons for that:

The first one is Social. Throughout history, women who were too easy and too willing to have sex, were considered “sluts”. Men who do the same, by the way, are considered as “studs”. So there is a clear hypocrathic discrimination against women. There are just not allowed to have free sex.

A girl who wants to keep her image, needs to play hard to get, in order to get the respect she deserves. Because it’s going this way for such a long time, it’s already in the girl’s subconsious mind – she feels the need to resist sex.

Now, the second cause is in fact, Biological. For women, until about 50 years ago, having sex had big consequences. Sex meant that a girl had about 3%-5% chance to get pregnant. So having sex with the wrong guy, and in the wrong time, was a very risky move.

Therefore, women are biologically wired to postpone sex until they feel they found the right guy – the right guy to establish a family.

Of course, in today’s world the  biological cause is irrelevant – we have condoms and pills. But it’s still in the girls subconscious mind.

How To Get Her To Have Sex With You

So, after we understand the paradox here – women want sex more than men, but they also feel the need to resist having sex in the same time, as a man you must ask: So how do I get her to have sex anyway.

Well, I’ve developed a strategy to overcome the girl’s resistance. Of course, she isn’t going to have sex with you if she doesn’t like you or doesn’t feel attracted to you. But if she does, your first goal is to overcome her “feeling of guilt”.

As we said, a girl’s first and main resistance cause is her image. The best way to overcome it is to make her feel that you seduced her, and that she didn’t have control over her actions.

Therefore, I recommend to have alcohol involved. It doesn’t mean that you need to get her drunk. But it means that she needs to have the excuse of being drunk.So get her to drink a couple of glasses of wine, or a bottle of beer – and you passed your first challenge.

Find An Excuse To Get To Your Place

Never tell a girl that you are going to have sex. Never ask her questions about it. You can have talks about sex during the date – but the closer you get to your place, the less sexual you should be.

When a girl chooses to come to your place, she doesn’t need to have the idea of “I am going to have sex” booming in her head too strong. Of course, she knows that this is possible, but you don’t need to tell this to her. Again, a girl needs to have the excuse of coming to your place, and “things just happened”.

So, you need to find a really platonic excuse for her. And drinking coffee isn’t good enough. I love to tell her about my collections of beer bottles, or about my photos from a trip to india.

 Give her an interesting reason to come to your place. Trust me – a bit drunk, afterkissing you (hopefully), after a first date, when it’s pretty late – she knows why you want her to come. You just don’t need to tell her.

Get Her Horny And Arouse

After she’s in your place, don’t forget why you got there. No matter what you asked her to come to your place for, keep it quick and get to business.

Here, there is nothing unique. Get her horny by having sexual talks, and touching her gently, and slowly move to your bed. The fact that it’s a first date might increase her last minute resistance, but if she came to your place, you have very good chances of getting laid.

But if she resists, it’s OK. Just understand how much presser she’s feeling to say “no”. Just wait for the next date to fuck her.